Six ways to spice up a boring relationship

Boredom! It’s one of the most dangerous things that can happen to 
a relationship. 

Boredom is a threat to your relationship because it's often the 
root of other issues.


If you recognize that your relationship could use a boost, what do you do? 

Here are six ways to spice up a boring relationship and keep it hot.

Know your partner’s love language: Knowing your partner’s love language is fundamental 
in a relationship because while you can love someone with every fibre in your body, 
unless you are conveying that love in a way they can understand it, 
they’ll never truly feel loved (and desired).

Do new things together: You guys should learn to do new things, change your 

normal everyday routine life. These activities include everything from trying 

new restaurants, taking up a new hobby or traveling to a destination you have never 

been together. 

Be consistent: “Don’t start something you are not willing to maintain” 

Committed relationships require something I like to call “stick-to-itiveness.” 

When you think back to the beginning of the relationship, there were dates, 

flowers, appreciation, compliments, sweet gestures and messages. 

I’m talking about all types of touching – hand holding, hugging, caressing 

and cuddling, as well as more intimate touch and the likes.

Be full of Surprises: Don’t you love the look on a loved one’s face when you’ve 

presented them with something unexpected and kind? There’s often more

enjoyment for you than for the person on the receiving end. 

An unexpected gesture or gift is always welcome as long as it is something 

you know your partner will be interested in (which underscores 

the importance of listening to them to determine their desires)

Always look your best: I’ll never forget what a co-worker told me a few days 

back about why she works out so vigorously: “I’m keeping’ it sexy for my man.” 

Attraction often times grows throughout the course of a relationship, but looking 

your best physically is a great way to maintain the desire that was present in 

the early days of your relationship. Plus, when you feel good about the way you look,

 your confidence will be irresistible!

Create more time for each other: Spending lots of time together is key to maintaining 

a relationship, but there is such thing as too much of a good thing. 

Allow yourself and your partner time away to rejuvenate for the sake of the individual and 

the relationship.

Happy Loving...